Comments for My Next Chapter: Marriage, Separation, Divorce, Children, Healing http://mynextchapter.wordpress.com Documenting the process of redefining myself. Tue, 25 Nov 2008 19:03:23 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 Comment on Finally Growing Up A Little by Sympathetic http://mynextchapter.wordpress.com/2008/11/22/finally-growing-up-a-little/#comment-72 Sympathetic Tue, 25 Nov 2008 19:03:23 +0000 http://mynextchapter.wordpress.com/?p=38#comment-72 Good on you man. You're stronger and better than you think. To thine own self be true. Good on you man. You’re stronger and better than you think. To thine own self be true.

]]> Comment on Big Steps…The Next Chapter is Beginning.. by Sympathetic http://mynextchapter.wordpress.com/2008/09/29/big-stepsthe-next-chapter-is-beginning/#comment-69 Sympathetic Mon, 13 Oct 2008 20:39:41 +0000 http://mynextchapter.wordpress.com/?p=36#comment-69 Be true to yourself, and try to enjoy your life as you journey through it. I know that just sounds like a bunch of empty words, but I hope things work out for you. Be true to yourself, and try to enjoy your life as you journey through it. I know that just sounds like a bunch of empty words, but I hope things work out for you.

]]> Comment on Metamorphisis by Sympathetic http://mynextchapter.wordpress.com/2008/08/03/metamorphisis/#comment-64 Sympathetic Sat, 09 Aug 2008 14:32:03 +0000 http://mynextchapter.wordpress.com/?p=33#comment-64 Your words inspire me. Good luck. Your words inspire me. Good luck.

]]> Comment on Metamorphisis by thenonconformer http://mynextchapter.wordpress.com/2008/08/03/metamorphisis/#comment-63 thenonconformer Mon, 04 Aug 2008 20:35:21 +0000 http://mynextchapter.wordpress.com/?p=33#comment-63 When it comes to your own family you next often have to learn to live in love with what you got .. and the same attitude applies to divorce, you try to make the best of it. http://thefocusonthefamily.wordpress.com/2008/07/18/most-popular-post-the-focus-on-the-family/ When it comes to your own family you next often have to learn to live in love with what you got .. and the same attitude applies to divorce, you try to make the best of it.

http://thefocusonthefamily.wordpress.com/2008/07/18/most-popular-post-the-focus-on-the-family/

]]> Comment on Another Huge Step by Sympathetic http://mynextchapter.wordpress.com/2008/06/18/another-huge-step/#comment-62 Sympathetic Tue, 22 Jul 2008 16:36:03 +0000 http://mynextchapter.wordpress.com/?p=32#comment-62 Just wanted yo to know there's people thinking of you, and wishing you the best. I know you're not in a place to talk right now, but best wishes to you. Just wanted yo to know there’s people thinking of you, and wishing you the best. I know you’re not in a place to talk right now, but best wishes to you.

]]> Comment on May 19, 2008: Phases by cory johnson http://mynextchapter.wordpress.com/2008/05/19/may-19-2008-phases/#comment-59 cory johnson Fri, 06 Jun 2008 19:20:13 +0000 http://mynextchapter.wordpress.com/?p=24#comment-59 I am 44 years old and this divorce of mine has completely destroyed me. She has been hell bent on seeing me crumble and that is exactly what has happened. Because of her nonsense I have completely lost everything: my business,kids,home,car,monet and health. She will not let me have any contact with my kids and she has now convinced the courts I am a drug dependant, alcoholic crazy person of which I am none. The only thing I am guilty of is not liking her which to the best of my knowledge is not a crime. My blog www.phoenixrising-online.com/blog chronicles my experiences in this disaster show. I am 44 years old and this divorce of mine has completely destroyed me. She has been hell bent on seeing me crumble and that is exactly what has happened. Because of her nonsense I have completely lost everything: my business,kids,home,car,monet and health. She will not let me have any contact with my kids and she has now convinced the courts I am a drug dependant, alcoholic crazy person of which I am none. The only thing I am guilty of is not liking her which to the best of my knowledge is not a crime.

My blog http://www.phoenixrising-online.com/blog chronicles my experiences in this disaster show.

]]> Comment on May 19, 2008: Phases by Megan http://mynextchapter.wordpress.com/2008/05/19/may-19-2008-phases/#comment-42 Megan Mon, 19 May 2008 23:17:51 +0000 http://mynextchapter.wordpress.com/?p=24#comment-42 Wow. I totally stumbled on your blog by accidently clicking on something, but something lead me to your story. I wish I had more time to read more, you seem bright, aware and someone with a message. All I know is that things do change and often for the better. megan Wow. I totally stumbled on your blog by accidently clicking on something, but something lead me to your story. I wish I had more time to read more, you seem bright, aware and someone with a message. All I know is that things do change and often for the better.
megan

]]> Comment on May 16, 2008: The First Day Of My New Path by Mark http://mynextchapter.wordpress.com/2008/05/16/may-16-2008-the-first-day-of-my-new-path/#comment-31 Mark Fri, 16 May 2008 15:54:08 +0000 http://mynextchapter.wordpress.com/?p=20#comment-31 Glad that this is the beginning of something positive for you brother!! I know you'll get through this a better man. Glad that this is the beginning of something positive for you brother!! I know you’ll get through this a better man.

]]> Comment on May 14, 2008: The Morning Sucks by Sympathetic http://mynextchapter.wordpress.com/2008/05/14/may-14-2008-the-morning-sucks/#comment-29 Sympathetic Thu, 15 May 2008 15:31:54 +0000 http://mynextchapter.wordpress.com/?p=18#comment-29 May you find peace and clarity. May you find peace and clarity.

]]> Comment on May 13, 2008: Fog by Sympathetic http://mynextchapter.wordpress.com/2008/05/13/may-13-2008-fog/#comment-24 Sympathetic Tue, 13 May 2008 20:57:33 +0000 http://mynextchapter.wordpress.com/?p=17#comment-24 Keep in mind, just because she's looking at options doesn't mean she's given up on you. Any dramatic change in life require preparation, and she may be hedging her bets. I would be if I were her. Remember that whenever you're down or mad, things look the worst to you. I know you already feel like you're giving her so much benefit of the doubt, and she's walking all over it and using you. But, it's not always as bad as it looks. Like you said yesterday, you should be focusing on what's right for you in the long run, and what's good for your family in the long run (in that order) and not on the daily crap you're stuck in now. Even better if she could be doing the same thing. When there's blood and poison in the water, everyone feels nasty. Keep in mind, just because she’s looking at options doesn’t mean she’s given up on you. Any dramatic change in life require preparation, and she may be hedging her bets. I would be if I were her. Remember that whenever you’re down or mad, things look the worst to you. I know you already feel like you’re giving her so much benefit of the doubt, and she’s walking all over it and using you. But, it’s not always as bad as it looks.

Like you said yesterday, you should be focusing on what’s right for you in the long run, and what’s good for your family in the long run (in that order) and not on the daily crap you’re stuck in now. Even better if she could be doing the same thing. When there’s blood and poison in the water, everyone feels nasty.

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